Sex has been wildly warped by mainstream society and by matrix thinking. One of the things that people are shocked to hear is the fact that I have been celibate for six years. People have grown up in a way of thinking that has convinced themselves that how often they have sex determines their sex appeal, their attractiveness, and in turn, that’s where they have put their worthiness. ☾
People are downright afraid to not have sex for an extended period of time, because they think it means “they can’t get laid.” People have begun putting their worthiness and attractiveness in how often they can have hook-up sex with someone that they view desirable, to keep proving to themselves that they’re attractive. ☾
Sharing your sexual energy that way with people in a “hook up” culture depletes that energy from you. You are not going to have a properly balanced sacral chakra or balanced masculine and feminine energy when you hand out your sexual energy like a punch card. People are so, so afraid to even say that they’re celibate because they are worried that it denotes their attractiveness. ☾
I love telling people that I’ve been celibate for six years. I am so, so proud of that fact (and I’m a Scorpio sun!). The first (and only) partner that I had was very toxic and abusive, and it warped the way that I viewed sex for years — so I purposefully avoided dating for awhile after that situation ended. I have since healed those wounds in myself, but I still have no interest in “hook up” sex. There hasn’t been a worthy partner in my life, so I’m not spending any of that energy with a partner who isn’t worthy of it. ☾
I’m going to keep talking and sharing a series on sacred sexuality and what that energy should be truly used for. But the first step is embracing the fact that some people are downright AFRAID to be celibate, because they feel insecure about it. Once you dismantle the matrix “hook-up” culture and believing it determines your attractiveness, that’s the first step.