You have to create the capacity in your life for the things that already belong to you. The biggest part of manifestation and propulsion of your destiny is the gratitude for what has already come into your life. You aren’t going to be able to sit around and force things into your life simply because you “want them now.” Odds are, if you want them now, then you aren’t ready for them.
You’ll inevitably end up in a situation that you weren’t meant for, that will pull you through a lesson to understand your woundings that got you to that point. And, yes, I’m calling out all y’all dating random men for the attention. You want your soulmate? I’d bet my left tit that it isn’t the Brad you’re casually having a sexual relationship with and are trying to manipulate into a relationship.